One of the more awkward holidays for couples who have recently broken up is Valentine’s Day. In many cases there is still a level of attraction felt between the two sides, but not everyone is ready to commit to finding a solution. This can make February 14th an important date to start a new direction in the relationship.
By choosing thoughtful gifts that can transform your thoughts into feelings, you can use this holiday to patch things up with your partner. Here are some Valentines Day gifts to spark some romance with your ex.
Tickets
If you are still talking with your ex, then one of the best gift ideas for getting your romance back into gear is get tickets to a concert or sporting event you know they’ll love. Not only is this a great way to remind them just how well you know them, but it is also a great excuse to go on a date together. Just make sure you are confident that you will go to the show together. You don’t want to blow hundreds of dollars on seats only to see them take someone else.
Music and Movies
If your ex is still not talking to you, then you will have to be creative with your approach to Valentine’s Day. The key is to find a gift that will be curious enough to open, and at the same time, make them think about you in some way. One of the best ways to do this is to give music CD’s or movie DVD’s that will remind them of you. Think of your relationship when it was at its best. What were you listening to and what movies were you watching? This is a good way to brainstorm title that will get an emotional response from your ex.
Something Small
Most people will say that it is not the size of the gift as long as it comes from the heart. This philosophy is particularly true when trying to mend a relationship. Expensive gifts are more likely to make your ex feel embarrassed and confused; where as a small thoughtful surprise can make them think back to happier times. With this in mind, try shopping for something that is not only inexpensive, but it should also come in a small package. There is something about small boxes that really builds the anticipation of a present, which will take away from any awkwardness in the moment.
The key to any Valentine’s Day gift for your ex is for you to think about the message you are sending. Not matter how much you want to patch up your relationship; you do not want to go overboard with extravagant gifts. The better plan is be creative and come up with a gift idea that shows just how well you know your ex. You want them to realize that you two are good together and that you will be waiting for them when the time comes.