If you’ve had trouble in keeping a man’s interest after a while, read on. Keeping a guy’s interest after sometime can be hard if you don’t know what you are doing. It’s easy to attract a guy to you. But the greatest challenge for most women out there is keeping a guy’s interest after the first few dates.
So what ensures that a guy will continue to be interested in you? It’s attraction. If a guy feels attraction for you all the time, he will continue to be in love with you. The main reason a lot of men lose interest is because they lose the initial attraction they had for the woman. You need to keep doing things that increase his attraction towards you. If you don’t do that, he will leave.
Here are the secrets to baiting him and making him feel more attraction towards you…
Always be aware of your looks – Almost each and every man loves the fact that he has a trophy girlfriend. It gives him more respect among his friends and other men. This subtly affects the behavior of a lot of men. So always be aware that physical attractiveness is important and work on it. It’s very important that you take care of it. Don’t ever be lazy even for just one date.
Don’t complain to him – If you are the type of woman who keeps asking him as to why he didn’t call or wants him to talk to you almost daily, stop. It’s not good. It means you are being desperate. Remember the golden rule: “The one who tries the least in a relationship is the one with the most control”. You should not expect him to do such things. Having expectations in a relationship kills off attraction. You need to come off as a woman who has little or no expectations. That’s how you mesmerize him. He will keep wondering about this fact.
No commitment talk – Commitment talk kills off attraction extremely fast. It’s not attractive for most men because they have a fear for commitment. Almost all men fear commitment because they fear being trapped. They hesitate even if they had to commit to a super model because they feel trapped. So it’s important that you don’t talk about it. Just act as though you don’t expect him to do anything. Be subtle. Don’t reveal your intentions directly. Slowly manipulate him and make him obsessed with you.
Make him miss you – If you want him to feel the love for you and increase his attraction towards you, you’ll have to make him miss you. Humans have a tendency to pursue things that retreat from them. And if you retreat from him, he will certainly pursue you. And at the same time, be unpredictable in your behavior. Make every move by surprise. The more surprises you have for him, the more attracted he’ll feel towards you. Ignore him sometimes. Make him feel truly special by taking him on a surprise date and shocking him.