Don’t think that you are unusual if you are the type of woman who wants to bend her man to her will. Most women do enjoy this type of power over a man as the feeling of making him do everything she wants is thrilling to say the least. Here are some ways you can make him putty in your hands.
Be encouraging and supportive
In the first place if you are the cold, criticizing or pushy type of woman, he will turn resentful and stubborn. Instead being the supportive and encouraging type will get you results in no time at all. Once he knows that you are there for him – he will want to make you as happy and do what you want as well.
Stick to your rules and don’t bend
Let him know right in the beginning that you will not be bullied in any way. Let him know that you have views and want him to respect you enough by conceding to them too. If you go out of your way to make him happy and satisfied, then it is only right that he should do the same.
Hold out where sex is concerned
Don’t be too accommodating and pamper him especially where the sex is concerned. If he is not treating you right and is being selfish in every way, then you should hold out where the sex is concerned and let him know in no uncertain terms that he will only get what he wants when he does what you want first!
Make him feel guilty
If you keep him thoroughly satisfied and happy with your charms and make yourself completely irresistible to him, then he will do everything to make you happy and you will have no problem in bending him to your will. Make him feel guilty about not doing what you want and he will feel restless till he does it!
Bribe your guy in a subtle manner
Don’t let him know it but bribe him in a subtle manner. You can adopt a coaxing manner and get him to do whatever you want. Whisper in his ear that you have something exciting planned for him in your bedroom as soon as he finishes doing the dishes! Let your body language speak for you.
A little tact will go a long way
Don’t be brash or domineering when you ask him to do something for you. He will hate to be ordered around Use gentle tones and have a sweet manner that will make him happy to do whatever you want. If you make your demands sound like pleas and polite requests he won’t feel so bad!
Act like he took the initiative
You could be clever and pretend that he was so wonderful in thinking of doing a particular thing for you! This way he is going to believe that he thought of it in the first place and will congratulate himself in making you so happy. Don’t forget to be extremely grateful and give him his reward – loads of kisses and hugs.