For new couples Valentines Day can be a stressful time. If you are unsure of all the interests your new lover has and want to get them the perfect gift you might end up feeling dumbfounded. However, Valentines Day is not meant to make you feel this way. The good news is there are a lot of things that new lovers can do to ensure that their first Valentines Day goes off without a hitch.
Celebrate Together not Apart
Most couples make it a point to buy separate gifts for one another. However, if you are still learning your partner, why not buy your gifts together this year? You can go shopping online or out to the stores and suggest gifts you might want. Your lover can choose one from out of the choices. You can do the same for her. Additionally, if you want to choose a couple’s gift that would be a great idea, as well. Having something to share could greatly intensify your relationship in all the right ways.
You might choose to limit the spending to a certain amount but shopping at local stores on the Internet will give you a versatile range of prices and options to choose from. You could choose a wide array of topics from adult toys to music CDs. In the end, they are all things you want but your lover will be choosing one for you, so you both win. Your lover receives the satisfaction of knowing they are getting you something you want and you are sure you end up with just the right item for you.
Know their Wants
If you insist on buying gifts for one another then you should exchange lists. This will allow you to ensure you get something that your lover wants. While you can always go with the old standby of flowers and candy, having a list will allow you a more personal way of showing your affection.
Plan the Night Together
Your best bet for your first Valentines outing is going to be to plan it together. Decide what you want to do and then you can plan the specifics together. You can plan everything together or you can separate the tasks down the middle. For example, you might pick the restaurant and your lover might pick the show or movie that you see.
If you are going out to clubs for the holiday, you might decide to go to two, with both of you picking one. Of course, you could always choose to stay in and decide what to do either in general or to one another. You could even make it a fun and erotic game just for you!
Lover’s Truth or Dare
If you are interested in games, you might want to challenge your lover to a game of Lover’s Truth or Dare. If you are a new couple and still learning about one another this will give you a great opportunity to get to know your lover. Of course, they might just keep choosing dare! If this is the case, you will not have too much to worry about as this game is just for Lovers.
When your lover chooses dare you get to give him a unique challenge that deals with pleasuring you in some way. This way, if your lover is picking dare, at least you know that you will end up having one of the best Valentines Days in memory!