It does not matter if you are looking for the perfect gift for the special male or female in your life. Massage is the gift that people of all genders and beliefs, simply love. Nothing feels better than to have that tension that resides in most people’s muscles, melt away.
Relaxing not only makes you feel better but it promotes a healthier day where you are free (at least partially) from stress, worry, or bodily aches. So, this Valentine’s Day if you are looking for something to give, along with presents and other typical fare, why not consider a massage? Chances are your lover will be sure to enjoy this part of the evening almost more than anything else.
Getting Started
In order to give a good massage you are going to want to do two things. First, you are going to want to be certain that you set the right mood. Second, you are going to want to make sure that you are giving a massage in the right place. You want to be in an environment that is both comfortable and easy to handle for the task at hand. The good thing about giving a massage is that as long as the person is comfortable it should be easy finding an area that is workable for you. Many good options include on blankets by the fire, on a bed, or on a special massage table.
To create the mood you should place on some soothing music. You might even want to consider nature sounds. You want to create a relaxing environment and many people love the tranquil sounds of waterfalls, thunderstorms, and other similar sounds. If you are opting for a romantic massage you should have the lights dim and you may want to add some candlelight for effect. Additionally, consider having a glass of champagne or wine to offer your lover before or after the massage begins.
Begin by removing their clothing. Once you’ve done this you can have them lay any specific way you want, though most find it appropriate to have them lay on their stomach first. If you are following the romantic theme of Valentine’s Day you might want to make this a body worship massage.
The main difference in this style of massage and any other is that in the beginning you use your hands to make them relax and once you’ve accomplished this you use toys, your hands, and your lips to create much more intense sensations to go with the relaxation you’ve just caused.
Add-Ons for Massages
The options here begin with obvious picks such as massage oil and move on to the more adventurous vibrators, finger ticklers, and other adult items. Of course, the first decision is massage oil.
If you are doing more of a body worship massage you might want to choose oils that are lick-able and flavored. Many of these oils will heat up on the skin when you blow on them, which will add layers of intensity to the massage, as well. Other edible items you can use during massage include whipped cream, body butter, and toppings of all sorts. If you are worried about what should and shouldn’t be used on skin try to stick with products that are made specifically for on-body consumption.
Additional items that you could bring into massages include finger ticklers, vibrating back massagers, massage mitts (vibrating and non-vibrating), vibrators, clitoral stimulators, and other similar toys. While these toys are not completely necessary, if you plan to use this massage as a precursor to lovemaking or you want your partner to feel as good as possible, these items will definitely help you to achieve all of your goals.