How can you tell if a Gemini man is in love with you? It’s a question you’ve been pondering since that charming Gemini guy walked into your life. He’s great, isn’t he? Most men born under this sign are. They’re fun, carefree and they embrace each and every experience presented to them. He’s special and you’re beginning to feel as though there might be the potential for something meaningful to develop between you two in the future. The only problem is that you have no clue what he’s feeling or thinking. Asking him certainly is an option but you don’t want to come on too strong. Fortunately, there are ways to gain some insight into what exactly he’s feeling without having to back him into a corner by asking countless questions.

Gemini men are amazing partners. They are very attentive and they strive to make the life of the woman they love, ideal. If your guy is starting to fall in love he’s going to be at your beck and call. He’ll make himself available whenever you need him and he’ll be hard to get rid of when you need to focus on other things. A very easy way to tell whether or not he’s feeling emotionally connected to you is by how often he’s initiating contact. Think about the past week or so. Who has called who more? Did your guy call you before you had a chance to call him or were you the one chasing him down? A Gemini who is feeling devoted to a woman will want to be around her as much as possible. He’ll call her several times throughout the day and he’ll move his schedule around just to accommodate hers. If you’re trying to pin him down for a date and he’s constantly got one excuse after another, he’s not in love yet.

Does the man you’re involved with seem interested in you? This seems like a silly question but there’s a reason for it. Gemini men are notorious for not getting invested too quickly with women. If he views you as a casual fling, he’s not going to ask too many questions about what’s going on in your world. If you start talking about a problem you may have, he’ll seem disinterested or he may even be so bold as to change the subject. This is disheartening to a woman who feels an emotional attachment to the man in question, but it’s a great barometer for where his feelings are.

When a Gemini man starts to fall in love, he’ll be a sponge in terms of learning about you. He’ll ask endless questions all centered on you and your life. You may even begin to feel uncomfortable with the relentless attention, but it’s definitely a positive sign. He wants to know you to your inner core and you’ll become his absolute favorite subject of conversation.

It’s worth noting that Gemini men do take some time to really fall in love at a deep level with a woman. During the time before that, he may seem disinterested at times to the point that you’ll wonder if he’s contemplating ending the relationship. Work may suddenly take precedence over seeing you or he’ll spend more time with his friends. If he’s the man you believe is meant to be with you, be patient and confident in yourself. If you become overly clingy or too emotional you’ll just risk pushing him away. Take it slow and enjoy the journey. He’ll appreciate that you’re not the dramatic type who wants a commitment too soon.