Does the thought of a confrontation with your boyfriend frighten you? Do you need to ask him if he has begun to lose interest in you? Well, here are some tips which will help you to turn into a bold and confident woman who has the right to know where she stands with her guy!

Have an honest talk with him

There is no use beating around the bush! Talking face to face with you guy is the best solution. Not only will you be able to gauge whether he is lying or not, but you will be able to look him in the eye and let him know what you think! This is better than being indirect and wondering whether he is still interested or not.

Be as distant as he is

Many girls have tried this “tit for tat” technique and found to their great delight that it worked. If you find that he is cooling off – it could mean that he does not care about your feelings and hurting you. This could be because he has taken you for granted and feel that you will always be around. Be cool and ignore him too! He will wake up!

Date someone else and watch his reaction

This works on similar lines. If you date someone else, not only will he be surprised but he will hate to think that you are on the verge of dumping him! If he has lost interest in you, the sight of you on some one else’s arm might revive his feelings for you and he may want you back. You can then question him about his feelings.

Don’t act like a sentimental old fool

Crying or bursting into tears every time you talk to him will disgust him and irritate him because he won’t know how to handle it. The first time you cried he probably was moved to pity and affection. But having you dissolve into tears every time you so much as talk to him will make him feel he is right in losing interest in you. Be strong and courageous while talking to him.

Leave emotion out of it

Too much emotion on your part will put him off. As it is men are less emotional and sentimental than women so your emotional outbursts and temper tantrums will not have any positive result on the relationship. Speak in a calm, cool and collected manner and you will have his attention.

Look appealing and seductive when you ask him

The best and most effective trick of all is to ask him whether he is losing interest in you, looking your best! Wear the most seductive and elegant outfit you possess and make sure he gets an eyeful of a gorgeous and incredibly sexy woman. He will think he is crazy to give up someone that stunning!

Apologize if you feel guilty of being at fault

Have you ever thought that he could have reason to lose interest in you? You could be the guilty one here. Take a good look at yourself and be honest with yourself. If you are sorry and want to make amends, apologize and be tender and loving towards him. You have a good chance in making him change his mind.