Are you discouraged by the dating scene because you can’t find love? Is the loneliness getting to you and you don’t understand why you can’t find love while so many of your friends find it so easily? Would your life completely turn around if you could find love and have a truly great relationship with a guy?

Many women complain that they can’t find love and there are no more good guys out there. But if you stop and ask them what they’re really looking for, they’re basically describing some fictional Prince Charming who simply doesn’t exist in the real world. Read on to see how you can find the love of your live and be eternally happy.

Beyond Looks

Out at a club one night, I saw these two musicians playing; a tall guitarist, massive and cute, and a singer who was a little shorter with thinning hair. I immediately had a crush on the taller guy and barely noticed the shorter one. But the tall guy was arrogant and a bit full of himself, and when the shorter one came up and sang a song to me, he simply won me over.

While looks are important and you have to trust that gut instinct of what appeals to you, don’t be too quick to brush a guy off because he’s not your physical ideal. A great sense of humor, charming smile and confident attitude can quickly win you over.

Give that average looking guy a chance.

Romance Overload

Many women want the whole shebang. Roses, wining and dining, poetry whispered in their ear and that golden chariot that will drive them off into the sunset. That might be cute in a novel, but in real life many guys simply buckle under the pressure to be so unbelievably romantic.

Sure, some guys have the natural knack. They know all the right things to say and do to woo a woman. But beware; these very same guys are most often the most heartbreaking players around.

But for many guys, that romantic streak simply isn’t in them. They don’t get women and they can be clumsy in their attempts at romance. But that doesn’t mean he’s a bad guy. Try to overlook his inability to romance you and look straight into the heart of the real man he is.

Your End of the Bargain

And what have you been doing to attract the love of a great guy. Are you sitting at home waiting for the phone to ring? Have you neglected your looks with a claim that looks shouldn’t matter? Are you bitter, belligerent and bossy to the extent of turning off guys after two minutes of conversation with you?

If you can’t find love, it may be that you’re putting out signals that contradict your desire for love. Your attitude, appearance and actions all say, “Leave me alone.”

Go out into the world, look your best and put on a smile that tells the world you’re a lovable and easy to approach person.