Just about every loving relationship starts with two people that are attracted to each other in some way, shape or form. Granted, this attraction could be only sexual, but those relationships that are only based on that don’t end up lasting that long anyway. But even if your relationship was purely a sexual one, this technique can help you as well.

So you’re wondering how you can make your Ex want you back.  The simple question that you need to ask yourself is what made your Ex want you in the first place? Was it the attention you gave him, the affection, the things you both had in common, or maybe it was the way you looked, or even the sexual compatibility? It was something.

Examine your relationship history. See what he most commented to you about. A good way to do this is to look back at some of the Valentine’s Day cards, or sweetest day’s cards, or any other cards. If you’re a gal, I know you saved them! These will surely have some comments in them about what he loved in you and in your relationship.

Now ask yourself if any of these qualities faded or just plain ol’ left town. It’s very common for loving couples to get into a relationship rut simply because they get so used to each other that the little things that really mattered seem to get left behind.  This doesn’t necessarily mean that love is lost.

Once you find those qualities in yourself that seemed to have faded, make an effort to get them back. Then, when you’re ready, make an effort to let your Ex know that you miss those very qualities that you and he used to experience, and that you’d like to experience them again. Believe me, if they won him over the first time, they’ll likely get him more than interested again.

My Ex left me because of the “little things” that faded. See my story on how I won her back.