You stopped dreaming and hating waking up every morning with a bruised heart due to a recent break-up. The idea of winning back your ex seems too good to be true. If you are one of those millions who deal with this feeling, then take heart. There is something love can do to help you win your ex back. All you need to do is follow these sure-win steps. After all, these are all tried and tested already.

The first step is to allow time to rule before acting anything on an impulse. Time will give you opportunity to sort things out on what happened and what really matters on your relationship. If you think that your relationship with your ex is worth the try the second time, and if you believe that you can make necessary adjustments on your end, then you will then realize the value of time. It will work wonders when you take your first step on your journey to win back your ex.

You also need to fill the gap between the time lost and the time to spend now so that the time you will be spending in the future with your ex is worth all your effort. Make the most of the time to promote your self-value. To battle the temptation of being helpless and needy, be the person your ex appreciated before, maybe even more. Improve on your self-esteem. Learn to control your emotions by handling things by mind and not by heart alone. Shift your focus to a more productive you. Apply yourself into improvement. Maintain positive spirit all throughout. You positivism will then attract your ex. Who knows? Maybe this time, your ex will be the one to pave the way for reconciliation.

Sincerity is also one essential factor if you want to win back your ex. You cannot tell your ex one thing then do otherwise. When you promise something to your ex, like if you are willing to do some adjustments, make sure that you really do that. If you tell your ex that you are willing for a compromise, do not give him or her only false hopes. When you say something, say it as if you have already accomplished it. Make no room for empty promises.

Sincerity is also important when you two meet each other again for the first time after the split up. Mean what you say and look straight in your ex’s eyes when you say something. In the long run, this quality will give you an edge to quickly grab your goal in the soonest possible time. Learn to apply these steps. For sure, winning back your ex will be a dream come true!