I am sure you are aware that Valentine’s Day is coming up. Did you know though that thousands of couples reunite for this special day? It is almost custom made for people in your situation. That’s why it would be a shame to let this opportunity pass you by.

These tips work great at any time of the year, by the way.

No matter what your situation is at the moment, this is a great chance to make your move. In the week leading up to Valentines Day, it is time to make your presence known. You do not want to be too late, or your ex may have found someone else to spend the evening with.

If possible, it is a good idea to meet up with your ex before the big day. You should meet up for something simple, like lunch (save the romance for the big day). Most importantly though, you need to specify that you are meeting up just as ‘friends’. This means there is no pressure on your ex. You may have other intentions in mind, but your ex probably knows this anyway.

It is important to get a good rapport going when you meet up, and then to keep things short. You want to be leaving your ex wanting more. Do not contact them afterwards – let them think about you first. You do not want to come across as too desperate to be with them, because this is a major turn-off. It is all about confidence and playing the attraction game.

If your ex contacts you first, then do not be afraid to put the question out there – see if they want to spend Valentines with you. If they are hesitant, then do not panic. Just be casual and friendly – it’s no big deal for you. If they are not spending it with someone else, they’ll definitely go for you, if you keep up this attitude.